Supporting others who are in some sort of pain, either physical or emotional, requires a heart-felt approach to be present along with a willingness to be an active listener. Problem solving is usually not the first priority as much as letting the person you are helping know their concerns are being heard. Being present for others in pain is not always so easy but being a rescuer ultimately ends up sabotaging your own well-being. Remember, your presence is what matters. If you can maintain a reassuring and compassionate demeanor, letting the other know that you truly care about their pain, healing can occur since healing occurs in many more forms that we can presume to know.
Howard Brockman, LCSW
Posted on February 23, 2012
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Howard Brockman
Author, Psychotherapist, Counselor at Salem Counseling & Psychotherapy, Howard Brockman, LCSW
Howard Brockman, LCSW is one of the top psychotherapists and counselors in Salem Oregon for over 32 years. Howard has authored two popular books:
Dynamic Energetic Healing and Essential Self-Care for Caregivers and Helpers. To learn more about Howard Brockman, please visit the full bio.
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